Resumo
O influente filósofo polonês Zygmunt Bauman lançou seu livro inovador, Liquid Love: On the Fragility of Human Bonds, há duas décadas, em 2003. Agora, como Zygmunt Bauman não está mais entre nós e vivemos no futuro que ele imaginou com um senso de pessimismo, parece apropriado reavaliar sua perspectiva sobre o conceito de "amor líquido". Bauman usou o termo "líquido" para descrever o amor on-line, ilustrando que ele se adapta ao seu contexto. Em nosso mundo contemporâneo, altamente individualizado e muitas vezes pessimista, muitas pessoas acham difícil se comprometer com relacionamentos humanos tradicionais. Consequentemente, elas buscam alternativas que se alinham melhor com as demandas do que Bauman chamou de "vida líquida", um conceito que ele cunhou para caracterizar a vida no início do terceiro milênio. Bauman tinha uma visão crítica do amor on-line porque acreditava que ele tinha o potencial de privar os relacionamentos emocionais de seus componentes essenciais, principalmente a presença e a natureza duradoura dos vínculos. Em essência, o amor sem conexões duradouras não pode ser chamado de amor de fato. Bauman comparou poeticamente o amor líquido à tecla "delete" em um teclado de computador: ela permite que você apague a qualquer momento.
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